Advice it is what it is!
Advice is just that advice; it is not something you have to accept, it is just information that you did not have to help you make the right decision and to help you stop making the wrong ones. Don’t get upset with others when you did not take their advice and your life is still going in the wrong direction. A person will give you advice, but they won’t beg you to take it and they damn sure won’t keep giving you advice when you don’t want to change your bad habits (Your just looking for Attention). If you want to be in a bad relationship that is your choice, if you can’t pay your bills because you want to spend your money on other things, then more power to you. But don’t blame others for your inadequacy that is all on you. As a responsible adult you should take credit for that mess all by yourself. Oops you can’t pay your bills or make good decision, how responsible does that make you? The sooner you stop throwing yourself a pity party every time something goes wrong in your life, the better your life will be. Your friends are there as your support system and to help you through hard times, but expecting constant handout is where you tend to go wrong every single time. No one wants to feel like they are being used all the time, or like they have to support your grown ass for the rest of your life. Grow up Please and Thank you!!!!